Mary Lincoln's Ring
"Love is Eternal" were the words engraved in the plain gold band that Abraham Lincoln slipped on Mary's finger at their wedding in Springfield on November 4, 1842. The inscription reflected the ideal of "romantic love" that swept America in the 1800s---the sentiment that marriage should be a romantic pairing based on mutual attraction rather than a mere economic partnership. Not everyone in frontier Illinois was married with "ring and book." Many couldn't afford it and some churches forbid "the putting on of gold or costly apparel." Lincoln, however, would have felt compelled to give his bride a ring to help demonstrate that he was worthy to marry into her family's higher social class. Mary's wedding band was still on her finger when she was buried in the Lincoln Tomb in 1882. Abraham Lincoln apparently never had a wedding ring; it was not yet customary. None of his pictures show him wearing a ring.
Close-up from Mary's earliest photograph (1846) showing her wedding band---a rare view since she usually wore gloves for photographs.
Chatterton's Jewelry store was a fixture on the west side of the public square in Lincoln's Springfield. Tradition holds this is where Lincoln bought Mary's wedding ring. In 1842 Charles and George Chatterton---natives of Ithaca, New York---were young men in their twenties.
Marker series. This marker is included in the Looking for Lincoln marker series.
Location. 39° 48.051′ N, 89° 38.965′ W. Marker is in Springfield, Illinois, in Sangamon County. Marker is on 5th Street just north of E. Adams Street. Touch for map. Marker is in this post office area: Springfield IL 62701, United States of America.
Other nearby markers. At least 8 other markers are within walking distance of this marker. Lincoln's Hat (here, next to this marker); Streetscape 1859 (within shouting distance of this marker); a different marker also named Streetscape 1859 (within shouting distance of this marker); Illinois State Register (within shouting distance of this marker); Campaign Poles (within shouting distance of this marker); Lincoln's Dentist (within shouting distance of this marker); Curran's Jewelry Shop (within shouting distance of this marker); Soldiers of the War of 1812 (within shouting distance of this marker). Touch for a list and map of all markers in Springfield.
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Credits. This page was last revised on June 16, 2016. This page originally submitted on October 27, 2011, by Bill Pfingsten of Bel Air, Maryland. This page has been viewed 574 times since then and 20 times this year. Photos: 1, 2. submitted on October 27, 2011, by Bill Pfingsten of Bel Air, Maryland.